Last real weekend of summer and I get to be with my family..hope you enjoy!!
Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad, and that’s why I call you dad, because you are so special to me. You taught me the game and you taught me how to play it right. Wade Boggs
When I was about 26, I found out the dad I grew up with was not my biological father. Everyone thought I would freak out. They freaked out. Every single person in my family seemed to know this already. Unbeknownst to me, I had so many people trying to solve this 26 year long mystery for me. They spent months trying to get to the bottom of it.
What they did not know is that I WAS shocked. But not in the way they might have realized. I was shocked that everyone in my family had kept a secret for 26 years. My family has never been good at not blathering on about everything, every place and everyone they knew. I WAS freaking out.. but only because I thought it would be so cool to have more siblings. I always wanted to come from a gigantic family. Think Partridge Family or Brady Bunch.. I could start a band or..uh.. travel across the states and get into ridiculous escapades..well maybe not.. but I thought it would be cool.
More than anything I was amazed. Amazed that the dad I grew up with, knew he was not my biological father and wanted to keep that a secret from me in order to avoid hurting me. I never doubted for a second that he loved each of us deeply and without pause and as his own children.
He used to tell me I was his favorite. I had his sense of humor, his walk, his work ethics. I worshipped him. I still do. He was a steady beacon of light on the shore of a wild sea of women. He was dependable, funny, and strong. He was my dad, my papa, the man to whom all other men would need to aspire to win my heart. I love you dad!!
Without my dad, I wouldn’t be here. Maria Sharapova
My Dad is my hero. Harry Connick, Jr.
Well, I usually don’t do this but I’m re-blogging one of my old favorite posts. This post was put together based on a contest that had already passed. I liked the idea so much that I decided to follow the post challenge and submit this blog based on that challenge. It’s still one of my favorite posts and I’m actually inspired to try to follow this idea on an annual basis. It was fun looking back and I want to thank the most recent commenter on this post who reminded me about it. Thank you blueribbonfair…
I hope you enjoy.
The Hostel Bookers 7 Super Shots photo challenge was held in January 2012. I wasn’t blogging back then but someone sent me the link thinking I might enjoy the challenge and they were correct. The photos highlighted on that site were amazing. I’m not competing in the contest obviously, but it was just a fun way to go back over some of the photos I have taken over the past few years and see what would fit where in each of the following 7 categories.
Even though I know that the contest is over, and you should also be aware of this, I wanted to participate whole-heartedly in this past contest that will reap me no reward other than my own personal satisfaction. So here goes. I hope you enjoy looking at the pictures as much as I enjoyed taking them and revisiting them.
For the purpose of the contest I had to choose 7 of my own photos, one for each of the following categories:
I like some of the following blogs for their amazing photographs and style, others for their incredible wit and ability to entertain. Other’s largely because they offer guidance on some topics I am interested in, like food, travel and photography reviews. Finally, I feel these particular blogs have something to contribute to the blogging world and the world in general. So in no particular order, here are some of my favorites. I will probably edit the list to add more, but these are just off the top of my head. Thanks for reading all.
Ok.. so I love my job. I love my life. I am blessed with it all. However, I’m still a little homesick and sometimes envious of so many of my friends. Maybe it’s Facebook’s fault.. seriously. There is a thing called Facebook envy. This is something that revolves around how our self esteem and even our happiness is negatively affected by spending so much time looking at the perfect lives that our friends and family are projecting on this and other social network sites. Everyone I know seems to be spending their time with family and long time friends. everyone is having a great time and toasting the holidays.
Realistically we all know that we all post only the best portions of our own lives and our best looks on social media. Even knowing this, I can’t help but feel a little sorry for myself on a bad day and wish I was also hanging with my family and friends. (Picture me stomping my foot, pouting or throwing myself on the couch and crying about how everyone in the social media world is spending so much lovely time with their family and close friends.)
The Daily Post’s May 5 prompt “A Tale of Two Cities” made me go back and look at my favorite places in the world and I finally narrowed down the two places I would split my time with if I could only split my time between two places. In fairness it only took me about all of 2 seconds to decide on these 2 places however, it was fun looking back at all of the places I have been.
My first choice is an obvious one. Spokane, Wa because that is where the majority of my family is. Spokane is where I grew up and where I finally returned to raise my kids. Spokane is the place where I always wanted to leave but always love returning to in order to reconnect with friends, family and just the city. I especially love Spokane in the Summer. My city has a beautiful river that runs through it, a giant park in it’s city center that was once a rail station and became the home of the 1974 World’s Fair which ended up transforming the city. (World Fair Spokane, WA) It was the smallest city to host the world’s fair and it was also the first to focus on environmental issues rather than on futuristic themes.
Other events Spokane is now Known for:
My own personal visions and memories of Spokane.
My second city would be New York. I love it so much that I have actually been requesting it adopt me. I love New York for virtually the same reasons I love Spokane. I have a variety of friends and family living there. Every trip I have taken there has been loaded with fun and great memories. New York will always hold a special place in my heart and mind. Even if it doesn’t adopt me. Though I don’t know why it wouldn’t. Maybe there is a law against it. I’m not sure. I do love New York and I love my friends and family who live there. There is always something going on in New York and always someone who is willing to do it with you. Whatever IT is.
Other posts I liked.
Thanks to all who have been following my blog, commenting on it and actually enjoying it. I really appreciate your comments. I mean I really, really do. I have enjoyed and have been inspired my many of your posts as well. Thanks again to all who have stopped by and even nominated me for special awards. In honor of the end of an old year and the beginning of a new year I am going to highlight the past year with some of my favorite, favorite photos from 2013.
I left Venezuela in December of 2012 and from Venezuela went and visited my children in Washington State, from Washington, I took a train with my youngest daughter and her son to Chicago and then went on to New York. After a few weeks in New York I traveled down to DC and on to North Carolina for a week. After North Carolina I went back to DC and began an 8 month Nepali language course. During the course I had several old friends visit me in DC. Some friends were from the military and some were from high school. I took trips to New York, New Jersey, Philadelphia and Richmond, VA. I went to wine tastings and food festivals. Finally I passed my Nepali test and WOW.. ended up in Kathmandu, Nepal. Those are the nuts and bolts.
What happened emotionally for me was some beautiful births from family and long-time friends. My sister got married and the wedding was such a touching and emotional event for me. I can’t adequately describe to you now nor to my sister at the time at how proud of her I was and glad I was to be her sister. I had emotional break downs with my older sister who got me to laughing and re-thinking my state. Man I love that girl. I was able to meet up with family and friends I haven’t seen for so long and it was like time had never passed. There was a completely unexpected death of a very amazing young friend that shook me to the core. I’m still dealing with some of the emotions that came from that. I was able to find a very old and dear friend that meant so much to me for so long and from that I had to come to terms with some truths about life and love. Letting go and reconnecting, meeting new friends and re-affirming long time friendships. I have spent a lot of time this year coming to terms with who I am and what I’m willing to accept and realizing that there are some serious changes in me that need to take place. There was awe, joy and great satisfaction at people, places and things and personal accomplishments. There was shock, horror and extreme emotional despair at people, places and things and a new-found understanding of life in general. I put up way too many photos here but there were tons more that could have been used. No photo can clearly express how I am feeling at this moment of remembering all of these things and right now there are no more words to say.
To all, have a prosperous and happy (focus on happy) New Year. Stay safe.
I hope you enjoy.
A memory is what is left when something happens and does not completely unhappen. ~Edward de Bono
Have a safe and happy new year.
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