Yoko meshi


Yoko meshi (noun) Origin: Japanese | The stress caused by speaking a foreign language.

Its hard translation is ‘boiled rice’ (meshi) and ‘horizontal (yoko) which will sort of mean as ‘a meal that’s eaten sideways’ — this metaphor actually refers to the fact that the Japanese write vertically instead of horizontally. Hence, the word yoko-meshi has a nice spin to it, doesn’t it?

An old topic for me.  I have nothing to add to this one-sided conversation except you should trust me when I say that I become super stressed when I have to speak in a foreign language professionally.  However, privately, learning bits of other languages has enhanced my life and travels to measures I cannot ever truly express.  The returns I have experienced by even knowing a few words in the language of the country I am visiting has caused laughs, misunderstandings, and deeper understandings and connections that have made my life so much better.  Connections I never would have made if I had let that yoko meshi steal my confidence and stress me out.  Push through it .. don’t give up.. make connections.

“A different language is a different vision of life.”
Federico Fellini

“The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.”
Ludwig Wittgenstein

“One language sets you in a corridor for life. Two languages open every door along the way.”
Frank Smith

“Language is the road map of a culture. It tells you where its people come from and where they are going.”
Rita Mae Brown

“He who knows no foreign languages knows nothing of his own.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“You can never understand one language until you understand at least two.”
Geoffrey Willans

“If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his heart.”
Nelson Mandela

“To have another language is to possess a second soul.”
Charlemagne

“Change your language and you change your thoughts.”
Karl Albrecht

“Learning another language is not only learning different words for the same things, but learning another way to think about things.”
Flora Lewis

“Knowledge of languages is the doorway to wisdom.”
Roger Bacon

“Language is the blood of the soul into which thoughts run and out of which they grow.”
Oliver Wendell Holmes

“Language is not a genetic gift, it is a social gift. Learning a new language is becoming a member of the club – the community of speakers of that language.”
Frank Smith

“Learn a new language and get a new soul.”
Czech Proverb

“A special kind of beauty exists which is born in language, of language, and for language.”
Gaston Bachelard

“Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere.”
Chinese Proverb

“One should not aim at being possible to understand but at being impossible to misunderstand.”
Marcus Fabius Quintilian

“A mistake is to commit a misunderstanding.”
Bob Dylan

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Come again…wait under WHAT tree?


I believe that life is chaotic, a jumble of accidents, ambitions, misconceptions, bold intentions, lazy happenstances, and unintended consequences, yet I also believe that there are connections that illuminate our world, revealing its endless mystery and wonder.
David Moranis

Ailsa’s travel theme this week was perfect.  Connections connotates so many different things to so many people and it was fun to look through other samples of what “connections” means to others.

Eventually everything connects – people, ideas, objects. The quality of the connections is the key to quality per se. – Charles Eames

Sometimes when living in a different country it becomes very difficult to connect with the words, the culture and some of the people.  It’s not due to either party’s intent or lack of trying.  It’s more that we all come from a place that we understand because we grew up in that place.

Take directions for example.  For the most part in the U.S. you can expect to be given directions in a very specific format.  Street names, building landmarks, or even natural landmarks.  Take this out of context and move it to a country where you barely speak the language and wow do some of these connecting factors change their meaning.  A tree will always mean a tree, but as I found out today a tea shop does not always mean a tea shop.

I have been trying to find this business so I can start taking Nepali language and cooking classes.  Today was a holiday and so I decided to venture out and find this place which is only about 5 minutes (Nepali time) from my workplace.  Here is how the conversation went.

Me:  So if I am walking from my home how do I get there?

She:  From the U.S. embassy on the first main road take a right.

Me:  Yeah but if I am coming from my home which road would that be?

She:  Oh yeah.. well, take the first main road right after the teaching hospital.

Me:  But my house is the opposite side of the embassy.  I can’t take a right from both directions can I?

She:  Oh yeah.. well, from your house take the first main road right after the teaching hospital .. take a right.  Walk a little ways and then take a right again.. You will pass a guard who is usually sleeping and then after about 200 meters or so you will meet with a tea shop.  Stop there and they will tell you to take a small left and there is our building.  If you can’t find it stop at the tea shop and then call me.

Me:  Ok.  so take a right on the first main road after the teaching hospital and then take a right on the next main road.. walk a short distance and when I see a tea shop then shortly after that take a left and there you are.

She:  Oh yeah!!

So I walk to the only main road between my house and my work.  I start down this road and there is no other main road to take a right on.  So I backtrack to the next main road.. which I didn’t actually know was a main road.

Main main road

Main main road

First main road to turn on

First main road to turn on

Guard sleeping as directed

Guard sleeping as directed

Not a real right but simply a bend in the road.. at this point I can only assume I am on the right road.

Not a real right but simply a bend in the road.. at this point I can only assume I am on the right road.

Is this really a main road?  Am I on the right road?

Is this really a main road? Am I on the right road?

First left.. I think

First left.. I think

No tea shop in site so I will walk a ways as she never gave me a distance perspective.

No tea shop in site so I will walk a ways as she never gave me a distance perspective.

This was the teashop and tree I should have spotted it right off.  The last picture shows that this is in fact the biggest tree on the road.

This was the teashop and tree I should have spotted it right off. The last picture shows that this is in fact the biggest tree on the road.

This side road was the one I was to turn left on.. after the first major road left.

This side road was the one I was to turn left on.. after the first major road left.