“One person’s craziness is another person’s reality.”
― Tim Burton
Jakesprinter’s Theme this week is Reality. To further define his theme he goes on to say:
Reality is the state of things as they actually exist, rather than as they may appear or might be imagined. In a wider definition, reality includes everything that is and has been, whether or not it is observable or comprehensible. A still more broad definition includes everything that has existed, exists, or will exist.
As I have been traveling and working my way through Nepal I’ve seen some happy, sad and interesting things. On my recent trip to a couple of towns near the Indian border I was faced with a few realities that in my perspective were CRAZY and strange and some were just plain horrible. Don’t get me wrong I’ve seen some amazing things as well. But in MY reality, some things were just not ok. Whether it was a safety issue or just cleanliness and abhorrent living conditions.
What would happen to your reality if you were taken from it and placed in some of the above scenarios? How would you feel? Would you be afraid? Would you be disgusted? Would it be exciting and thrilling or would you reject the reality and try to run from it? Would you go back to your life and attempt to forget it or tell stories about how very unfortunate these people were and how terrible their lives were? Would you be able to accept that this is just how life is for a large portion of the world? I would like you to challenge yourself and place yourself in these realities and for just a minute pretend that it is in fact your life, your reality. How do you feel? Could you do it forever? What if you had no choice? What if that’s all you knew?
“Reality is funny, Your’s will always be different than mine.” ― J.S. Riley
Is your reality better than another’s reality? If it’s all you know then it’s all you know. There is nothing unusual or sad. You still have dreams and hopes and desires. You can be happy even in a reality that appears unacceptable to someone else. Maybe some things should just be left alone. Sometimes we can bring people to a realization that their reality is NOT ok and that in order for them to be OK they need to change everything about their reality. Which eventually causes their situation to be worse for them than it needs to be. some people are actually happy in their reality.
Sometimes you need to take a step back to really understand the entire picture. You have to remove yourself from your reality because things really can be uglier if you are too close to the things you are seeing. I’m not saying don’t reach out a helping hand or try to intervene to make someones life better. I’m just saying try first to understand and accept their reality and not judge it or try to change it based on your reality or your ideal of reality. Not everyone wants YOUR reality.
Here are just a random sampling of other pictures from the same trip.