I see the world being slowly transformed into a wilderness; I hear the approaching thunder that, one day, will destroy us too. I feel the suffering of millions. And yet, when I look up at the sky, I somehow feel that everything will change for the better, that this cruelty too shall end, that peace and tranquility will return once more. ~~Anne Frank
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Ineffable
Inefffable: (adj) Too great to be expressed in words. late Middle English: from Old French, or from Latin ineffabilis, from in- ‘not’ + effabilis
Let us think the unthinkable, let us do the undoable, let us prepare to grapple with the ineffable itself, and see if we may not eff it after all. ~~ Douglas Adams
I attempt to surround myself with ineffable individuals. I put them on a pedestal, not so much to elevate them, more in an endeavor to hoist myself to their awesomeness. I seek to balance myself next to them and with my utmost energy work on becoming equal to them.
“Surround yourself with those who won’t compete but will revel in your success and see your ascent as a reflection of their own possibilities.” ~~T.D. Jakes
When you surround yourself with negativity and ugly, I think you become that. I have been scolded by many for appearing to run away from problems. I have tried to explain that I am not running away from anything, just trying to run towards solutions, happiness, and the amazing light that I find when moving away from the dark.
“You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.” ~~ A. A. Milne
I seek the company of dreamers and achievers, those with strength, dignity, ethics, and humor. My best companions, friends, and mentors are those that strive for the best, even when surrounded by the worst and build me up, helping me to build up others.
“Surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself!” ~~Zig Ziglar
Ofelia; Rob; Ben; Tvisha; Ktrammel; Janeen; Abvr; Tim; Carole; Mark: Hamish
A few of my favorite things – 2013 in review
Thanks to all who have been following my blog, commenting on it and actually enjoying it. I really appreciate your comments. I mean I really, really do. I have enjoyed and have been inspired my many of your posts as well. Thanks again to all who have stopped by and even nominated me for special awards. In honor of the end of an old year and the beginning of a new year I am going to highlight the past year with some of my favorite, favorite photos from 2013.
I left Venezuela in December of 2012 and from Venezuela went and visited my children in Washington State, from Washington, I took a train with my youngest daughter and her son to Chicago and then went on to New York. After a few weeks in New York I traveled down to DC and on to North Carolina for a week. After North Carolina I went back to DC and began an 8 month Nepali language course. During the course I had several old friends visit me in DC. Some friends were from the military and some were from high school. I took trips to New York, New Jersey, Philadelphia and Richmond, VA. I went to wine tastings and food festivals. Finally I passed my Nepali test and WOW.. ended up in Kathmandu, Nepal. Those are the nuts and bolts.
What happened emotionally for me was some beautiful births from family and long-time friends. My sister got married and the wedding was such a touching and emotional event for me. I can’t adequately describe to you now nor to my sister at the time at how proud of her I was and glad I was to be her sister. I had emotional break downs with my older sister who got me to laughing and re-thinking my state. Man I love that girl. I was able to meet up with family and friends I haven’t seen for so long and it was like time had never passed. There was a completely unexpected death of a very amazing young friend that shook me to the core. I’m still dealing with some of the emotions that came from that. I was able to find a very old and dear friend that meant so much to me for so long and from that I had to come to terms with some truths about life and love. Letting go and reconnecting, meeting new friends and re-affirming long time friendships. I have spent a lot of time this year coming to terms with who I am and what I’m willing to accept and realizing that there are some serious changes in me that need to take place. There was awe, joy and great satisfaction at people, places and things and personal accomplishments. There was shock, horror and extreme emotional despair at people, places and things and a new-found understanding of life in general. I put up way too many photos here but there were tons more that could have been used. No photo can clearly express how I am feeling at this moment of remembering all of these things and right now there are no more words to say.
To all, have a prosperous and happy (focus on happy) New Year. Stay safe.
I hope you enjoy.
A memory is what is left when something happens and does not completely unhappen. ~Edward de Bono
Have a safe and happy new year.
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about 7,100 times in 2013. If it were a NYC subway train, it would take about 6 trips to carry that many people.
Attractions in 2013
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- 1 Weekly Photo Challenge: Home 13 COMMENTS February 2013
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- 3 Memories are all we ever really have… 15 COMMENTS April 2013
- 4 Travel theme: Bright 2 COMMENTS November 2012
- 5 Weekly Photo Challenge: Lost in the Details 18 COMMENTS March 2013
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Travel theme: Distance
Ailsa’s travel theme this week is Distance. Perfect theme for me as I am currently preparing to go very far away. As I mentioned in my last post I am less than 3 weeks from heading off to Nepal.

country name Nepal in Devanagariscript *screen shot –Immanuel Giel 09:20, 1 Mar 2005 (UTC) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
My head is full of Nepali and exhausted so I’m trying to find ways to rest my mind and enjoy a little bit of my remaining time in DC. While I prepare to go far away I am also trying to distance myself a little from the people near me and my life in the U.S. As excited as I am to head out once again, I know that I will with as much passion and sadness miss the friends that are currently closest to me as well as my daughters who will not be traveling with me.
A friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain?
Last weekend a friend and I took a trip to Richmond, Virginia where we took a day to pamper ourselves (she is learning Vietnamese and will soon be off to ..duh.. Vietnam). We spent a 2nd day in the area before returning to DC visiting a local winery. While I”m not sure if the photos express distance so much as my sentiment does I hope you enjoy.
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It sort of took my breath away..
While riding my bike to school at 6:30 a.m. I looked to my right and this is what I saw.
In this time of war, and in memory of our fallen heroes, we must be mindful to do everything in our power to keep our troops safe as they keep us safe. We must do better to take care of their families, who sacrifice in ways too many count.
Senator John Kerry